Exactly Smiddy. The GB doesn't have to abandon those things, just moderate them so they are 'conscience' matters only.
Can't it be enough that JW's reject the trinity, immortal soul, hellfire, use the name 'Jehovah' 20 times more than the name 'Jesus', etc, without having to go door-to-door, stop your kids going to harmless birthdays, not even saying 'hello' to your own immediate family, etc?
The Society is ridiculous and holding the org back from growth. It's like they feel JW's have to be the opposite and contrarian on absolutely everything in order for it to be 'the truth'.
The number of JW's should be about 20 million by now, ie, the number of memorial partakers. The growth is stymied, stagnant and declining due to the sheer bloody-minded weirdness the leaders insist on perpetuating, like Christendom's geek pariahs.
How many millions have left or been kicked out harshly (eg, got drunk a few times, smoked a few ciggies) who really posed no real threat who might otherwise have stayed and donated $$$$ all these years?